Posted on July 10, 2008 by nuckingfutz
I got a kitten yesterday!!!!
I had been saying for months that I would love to have another cat. We had 2 when we lived in Illinois – Cheyenne and Dakota (they were brother and sister). Cheyenne accidentally got locked out of the house the day we brought The Little Chatterbox home from [...]
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Posted on May 30, 2008 by nuckingfutz
Reading the comments on this post really got me thinking. The more I thought about it, the more I realized that having a “no-diet talk” policy is a good thing.
For a lot of us, the road to dieting is a road to crazy-ville. I know that’s true for me. Like Rachel [...]
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Posted on May 22, 2008 by nuckingfutz
I was relating to The Hubster the story about the Olsen twins and their Starbucks Debacle. He didn’t understand the big deal about it until I turned it around for him.
“What if, say, you and I were out to dinner, and I ordered… ice cream… for a dessert? And the waitress brought me a bowl [...]
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Posted on May 18, 2008 by nuckingfutz
(The man in question, on a bouncy castle with Number One Daughter.)
As I said in a previous post, we have been communicating a lot more. Some of it has been a change in him, but the change in me has increased that desire for communication tenfold. As an experiment today, I asked him [...]
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Posted on May 16, 2008 by nuckingfutz
In the last couple of weeks, as I said in the previous post, my marriage seems to have done a total 180 – for the better!
My hubby and I are talking more, laughing more, and having a lot more sex. I can partly thank the people in the LiveJournal group fatshionista. Since joining [...]
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Posted on November 21, 2007 by nuckingfutz
After reading several blog posts and comments from around the fatosphere regarding fat women whose husbands actually love them because of their bodies and not in spite of them, it led me to wondering. Where does my own husband stand? I really didn’t know.
So about ten minutes ago, I gathered up the courage to ask [...]
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Posted on November 20, 2007 by nuckingfutz
According to my husband, who just watched SiCKO a few days ago, if we ever decided to move back home to the U.S., we’d be… well… fucked.
Ya see, my hubby? He’s “underweight.”
Me? I’m “obese.”
And my oldest daughter? She’s autistic and epileptic. (Heck, she might even be overweight, too, but I actually don’t know how much [...]
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